If Only.....

We have a tendency to waste a great deal of time and energy considering the mistakes and errors we have made and contemplate what might have been: "If only I had done this."

While it is certainly fair for us to assess the path we have taken - rightly or wrongly - we can't dwell on the "what ifs", all the while forgetting the opportunity found in the "next times".

Life is never about the pursuit of perfection....but rather to "perfect our will" to see the GAIN we learn from LOSS.